1. Men do not care about appearance as much as women.
Most of the time women fuss about their appearance and how they wish they could be thinner, but what do men care ? A men do not want a woman to have a skinny body that resembles Kate Moss, in fact men are alright with those love handles and a little lump of fat in your arm. So what makes women attractive in front of men is actually how attractive you are. So if lesbians say that other lesbians do not care about how I look then it could be wrong.
2. Appearance is a reflection of your personalities.
The studies by American Journal of Public Health actually drive people to stereotype the lesbians as the butch type lesbians, with men hair cut and obese body.