Did everyone see me do that?
We often feel that everything we do is under a social microscope. For example, we worry that everyone will notice the awkward statement that we make during an important conference call or that everyone was focused on our appearance on a "bad hair day." Are such worries justified or are we just being too sensitive when such thoughts cross our mind?
Cornell undergraduates were asked to wear a Barry Manilow t-shirt.
At the end of the study, the shirt wearer was asked to estimate what percentage of the other students would
remember their shirt, and they expected that nearly half of the students in the room would be able to
recall their embarrassing shirt. However, in actuality when the others students were asked to identify the shirt, less than a quarter of them could do it. On average, people expected that twice as many people would recall the shirt as they actually did.