“You grow up when you decide to do right, okay?  And not what’s right for you.  What’s right for everybody.  Even when it hurts.”

Then Lars wants to know, “Like what?”

“Like you don’t jerk people around.  And you don’t cheat on your woman.  And you take care of your family.  You know?  And you admit when you’re wrong.  Or you try to, anyway.  That’s all I can think of.  You know, it sounds easy, but for some reason it’s not.”