
Claire Langdon, 8, sipping (not slurping) soup.
“Yucky,” said Tristan Murray, 9.
“It wasn’t what they wanted to do,” said his mother, Monica, who, against all odds, is a firm believer in teaching children manners and had also enrolled her two daughters, MacKenzie, 11, and Delaney, 7.
Even parents whose children seemed to have high potential for manners had modest expectations. Carmen Murphy’s son, Kyle, 10, regularly attends cotillion, where he’s learning to waltz. Her hope for the manners course? “Maybe someday, when he’s 25, he’ll learn to use a napkin.”